Why doesn't the man want to be "just friend" with the woman?

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Kimmo Huosionmaa


Social relationships are difficult things. When we are thinking about situations, where the woman asks the man to be with her outside the working time, we must say that nobody has to be with workmates outside the working day. There are millions of men, who are got prosecutions because of sexual harassment when they are asked their workmates to visit their homes outside the working day. And we are all making our own decisions, about spending our free time.


Maybe some men think that those "just friends" cases are causing their decrease of grace in the eyes of opponent gender. And if the man visits in the bar with the woman, that might seem, that this man has begun the new relationship, and in that case, the grace would be decreased. Another explanation is that some men think, that in those "want to be just friends" cases would cause by the woman's need to offer herself to other men, by using this workmate as a step for getting close to another man. And some women think that they are more wanted if they have some man standing side of them.


In those cases, the woman thinks, that her real target for interests would want her more if she leaves another man for that other man. When we are thinking about the friendship between men and women, we can say that we are all created or formed as a man and woman. And sexuality is always an element of two genders, do we want it or not. Sexuality is an internal mechanism in the human body, and that is created by remaining of our species.


And in every friendship between man and woman would the question of sex always raise as the talking point sometimes. That makes those relationships quite difficult, because if other person says "no" that will be the disappointment on another part of this friendship. Also, that kind of friendships might be problematic, if another person starts to date with the third person, who is opponent gender. That would mean, that this "friend" just leaves alone, and that first relationship just passes away because the parts of it would not ever meet anymore.

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